Saturday, November 28, 2009

Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

I have fallen big time for my best girl pal. She has been my rock during my transformation into the girl I have always been. She has helped me dress and act like a female and recently I have been looking for an opportunity to tell her I love her.



Last night we had a girls night out. She took my back to hers after work and dressed me in a very sexy black dress. I have never felt so feminine and girly. She also spent a lot of time doing my hair and make up. She also dressed in a very hot outfit.



Any way we had the best night - I have never felt so alive as a girl. At the end of the night I went to thank her and well we just ended up kissing (a proper full on kiss - it felt fantastic)



I now definately know I love her but I do not know what to do next? Do I talk to her about the kiss, ignore it? Help!



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

Don't jump in and talk to her about it at first. Just see how she acts when she's around you now. If she seems uncomfortable/awkward (e.g. avoiding eye contact, short non-committal answers) she's probably embarassed, possibly regretting what happened. If she goes on as if nothing happened, chances are she's trying to forget about it. If she greets you enthusiastically and acts very friendly/affectionate, it may be a sign that she is interested.



You will need to talk to her eventually, or it will drive you crazy, but approach the topic with caution.



1) If she seems uncomfortable/awkward, start out with something vague like "how are you doing?/is there anything wrong?", let her do the talking. If you get nowhere with that, try asking her how she feels about that night, if she regrets it, tell her you still want to be friends with her and spend time with her, but if she needs some space/time, you understand and be patient. Tell her you understand that these things are confusing, and that you're not sure where to go from here either, but that you hope that you'll be able to work it out together.



2) If she seems happy and enthusiastic and is friendly towards you, try flirting a little bit, see if she flirts back. If yes: keep going, see where it takes you. If no: ask her casually about how she's feeling, is there anything she wants to talk about.



3) If you can't get a read off her, continue as friends for a while, as you were before. If there is no change, talk to her about the kiss, how she feels about it. Tell her how you feel, but understand that she might not feel the same way. Try to avoid getting too emotional, keep calm and make sure she knows that you want to stay friends.



Given that you seem to have a good history and that you're very close, I don't think this will come between your friendship. With any luck, it might even be the start of a relationship, but my advice to you is to hope for the best, but not to expect it, that way you won't be too disappointed if it doesn't work out. If it does, all the better. Good luck.



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

bring her round to mine and show me



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

Oh wow, this is quite a big deal!



From the way she is around you next time you will know how she feels about you. Avoids eye contact - bad. Smiling and hugging you - good.



Good luck, I do hope it works out.



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

Awwwww,thats great! I wish same thing happens with a guy I am interested in !~



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

the only way u will have any peace of mine is if u sit and have a face to face chat with her about what has being going on between u two for the past weeks. i hoped this helped.



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

Assuming you are transsexual and pre-transition at least, I'd say you have just opened a can of worms that definitely needs a serious talk between you.



The dilemma you face is does she see you as a woman or a man and before you blow this off, at your stage this is a very important consideration. She will need to be completely honest with you and you will need to actually hear what she says without freaking out if it's guy she sees.



All this is if she doesn't act all weirded out the next time you get together.



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

talk 2 her about it she seems to like you to, because why would she make so much effort to make you look so hot,



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

NO! Have a fisting session next.



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

What you should do is to talk to her and whether she sees you as a man or a woman.



Have you had a sex change operation yet Sarah?



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

sleep with her you will enjoy the experience, its normal a lot dont admit trying it



Kissed my best friend last night - what should I do now?

talk to her and see how she feels first.

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