Is councilling usless as feminsied?

Ok by this I mean... females say they have a problem ie the car don't work...

Their girlie mates hug and give sympathy etc , sit there and listen... but the car is still broke...

A gay would get a tool kit, get her to help, fix the car, make her watch so she sees how to fix it, car owrking, next time she can fix it...

Thats the crux of it...

Ie teen girl, hates self, balemic, cuts self etc...

counceller listens yak yak Uterly point less.

Joey here would take her down beauty r Us, sort the hair, loose the glasses, and the braces. Get laser eye surgery so no more contacts, fix the allergy., manicure, pedicure, maybe palstic surgery... get her looking buff. Then get clothing coaches that will work with her personality to get her sexuy confident clothes... ie rock chick, surfer babe, biker chick, hip hop chick, goth, trendy, etc.

Prob sexy uniforms too... nurse cheerleader etc...

Pole dance lessons, exotic dancer lessons, how to charm boys lessons

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

I think you misunderstand, there's a difference between counselling and sympathy. Counselling is not just about listening and agreeing 'yeah, isn't it terrible'.

Plus there are different types of counselling, all demand some degree of input from the client, not just a long list of moans and grumbles. Counselling is a tool to develop insight and self awareness to deal with emotional problems, once those are understood you can also learn practical skills.

You are saying you can either have one or the other; and that girls have emotions and boys have practical skills; you can have one or the other. Its just garbage.

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

Sounds like you are worried about something? Maybe your friend has to go through some old things before she/he can begin to get to grips with the things that make us feel good? Maybe you feel you can't do enough to help, or maybe you have had a tough time yourself. Talking things through can't do much harm, maybe hiding things away can?

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

what is the question

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

was there a question in there?

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

Don`t Write a BOOK next time just ask a question

I got bored and fell to sleep reading it

So am saying this without completingreading.

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

Far too long and boring a question for me.

Sit down with a counsellor and talk about it.

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

Like the others I find this very, very boring and not a little weird, however it's nice to see Joey championing the Gay cause, "A gay would get a tool kit..."

Cute!

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

I think that, what you are saying, is that guys are more practical.

They think, what's the problem, right, I need to do this or that, to fix it.

Women get all emotional about a problem, they have to be comforted first, then they will ask some guy what to do to fix it. Probably having blamed him for it going wrong in the first place.

I do'nt think that counselling is any use at all. How are you gonna learn to be independent and fix things for yourself if you are always running for help. I think that counsellors enjoy other peoples problems, they like talking about them, they like the power buzz it gives them by feeling superior. Who are these people anyway? that they think that they can always fix other peoples problems. A little arrogant, I think. Very female.

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

I've got as Porsche.

Its not an automatic.

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

I think you need a counselor!

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

AHHHH HELLO COUNSELLORS GET PAID TO LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHINING ALL DAY LONG....!!!! WHO WOULD WASTE TIME SITTING LISTENING TO PEOPLES PROBLEM UNLESS YOU GET PAID!!! IF MY FRIENDS COMES TO ME FOR PROBLEM JUST TELL THEM TO GO TO COUNSELLOR !!! IF THEY HAVE CAR TROUBLE POINT TO MECHANIC!! SHEESH....END OF STORY!

Is councilling usless as feminsied?

You can be fixed on the outside all you want but it doesn't matter if the inside is still broken.