Have you fell in love and quit worrying so much about your outer beauty?

I used to worry about how thin i was, what clothes i wore..if my makeup was perfect..I had the hair done every 6 weeks, nails done every 2 weeks..i ate perfect, worked out, good tan..my looks consumed me until i fell in love and realized how much more there was to life..I gained 15lbs and really dont give a crap about being sexy or how i look. I dont have the energy anymore to deal with all that upkeep! I went from high maintanence to low maintanence..lol

Sometimes i hear ppl talking about me, that ive let myself go and it hurts my feelings...sometimes i look in the mirror and i know i dont look the way i use to but inside i feel so much better...

anyone else been where im at??

Have you fell in love and quit worrying so much about your outer beauty?

When you're in love, nothing else matters. Don't give a f*ck, about those people who gossip bout you. They are jealous because you found love and they didn't. Keep on loving!

Have you fell in love and quit worrying so much about your outer beauty?

What, ME worry about my outer beauty? Get a load of me!

Have you fell in love and quit worrying so much about your outer beauty?

Heck no!!! To me once you're in LOVE it's even more important to maintain yourself. The guy fell in love with a package, now you're giving him only part of that?

This is not to say he won't or doesn't accept you being bigger or not maintaining yourself, BUT I see that as taking advantage of HIM.. how would you feel if he put on 10 or 20 lbs and started looking like, he just didn't care..... ?

If my husband is looking at anyone, it's gonna be me. I'm going to remain the one that catches his eye.

I think you should think about that as well..

Have a great one!閳藉皷妯?/p>

Have you fell in love and quit worrying so much about your outer beauty?

This sounds familiar. It happens to new families, whether you have a child, or get married, or enter a serious relationship, this type of thing happens. If you aren't keeping up with yourself the way you once did before the relationship, how do you plan to keep the man. Does he really love you for who you are becoming, or is it who you were when he met you. People may think this is a little shallow, but he fell for your look first, personality second and who you really are third. Finally don't let this relationship define who you are now! If staying thin, working out, and ALL the other things you did before you two met was important to you before this man, then you should evaluate why it isn't as important now. MAKE SURE YOU AREN'T LOOSING YOUR IDENTITY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP! GOOD LUCK TO YOU!